For the past 16 years, I've been through a lot of friends. Some who are mean, rude and very annoying. Some comes and go, some are here to stay. Even though 16 years isn't a lot, but I know very well who to be friends with and who to stay away from. Some might say, "Do not pick friends as they are here for a reason.". But in my point of view, some are here to mess your life up. Why stay when all they are making you feel is unhappy? It doesn't matter who they are, how gorgeous they look, how "popular" they are or how rice thet are. IT DOESN'T MATTER. "Friends" who make you unhappy are not your friends.
However, friends who are always there for you thick or thin, those are the people you should cherish for life. They are the people who deserve your time and effort. Make them feel happy like how they make you feel happy. True friends are not easy to find, but if you come across one, make sure you're really going to be there for them and be a true friend. Maybe when they say "They are here for a reason", it only applies for true friends.
What are friends for? Friends should always be honest to each other no matter what. It doesn't matter if it's about sense of style, something stuck in your teeth or on your face, crushes.. Doesn't matter. Being honest to a friend is something very important to keep a friendship, like a relationship. But, this topic is about friendship.. So I will not go there.
I had a lot of best friends.. But sometimes, things don't work out as you thought it will.. People change, things change. You can't do anything about it, but move on. Yes, you might feel very sad or even depressed for losing a best friend.. But you just got to accept the fact and go with the flow. I had a lot of best friends either drifting apart from each other, or things got into the way and ruin friendship..
I remember being in form 2, I had this best friend which I can click so much with. She's someone I trusted and loved, she's like my sister from another family. She's one of the first person I ever shared everything with as puberty starts to hit. I told her everything like, problems, boys, work, stress.. EVERYTHING. We never run out of topics to talk about. We always acted like kids in class, getting in trouble together.If we had any problems or fights, I remember solving it in a blink! It was great memories. Things changed, but i'm glad she's still one of my closest friends I share everything with. Her name is Yik Ling. If you're reading this, Thanks for everything, Yik Ling! x
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| Yik Ling and I in the park blowing bubbles. |
This year, I have a few people in my life I really appreciate. They're always there for me whenever I need someone to talk to. They are the people who always give me tons of advises. I will always appreciate the things they have done for me. Them being a part of my life has been such a great thing. So much love for them. They
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| Lester being a dork. |
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| Noob Snail. |
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| Sisters from the same hole. |
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| Loh Max Austern! |
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| Love. |
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| Kit Kat! |
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| Qiu Wei the berry! |
Thank you Lester for always being there for me since form 2. You have been a great friend, making me laugh like a retarded seal with your goofy jokes. Teaching me mandarin because you're a MURID CERMERLANG. "Thank you Kye Huann for listening to me when i'm sad. I don't know how you know i'm sad, but you just know and will ask if I need ears. Thank you Aly for being there for me when I need to rant about things that always piss me off. I don't know how you do it, but you're still alive from all of the rants I rant about. Thank you Austern for always making me laugh all the time with your inappropriate comments about people. You're always trying to help me with my problems even though we both know it can never be solved. But really, thank you for trying. Thank you Brownie for giving me kisses and hugs whenever we're hanging out. You're always comforting me when I need someone to be with. [translation: woof woof woof] Okay, that was lame.. Thank you Woon Kit for ALWAYS listening to me in the van ranting, gossiping, telling you about my day all day every day since form 1! I can't believe you can stand me! And last but not least, Thank you Qiu Wei for always trying your very best helping me in every way you can. You're someone I can really feel comfortable with. I feel like, everything can't be told to someone. But, as for you, I literary tell you everything. I'm never insecure when I'm with you. You always give me the best advises I can't get from anywhere or anyone else. You're really someone I'm gonna cherish for life no matter what. Thank you. Thank you guys, you guys are amazing. Much love.
My life has been an amazing journey with you guys. Thanks for being with me on this roller-coaster going up and down non-stop. Thanks for comforting me to go through it. I would have gave up in the middle of the ride without you guys, Thank you! I love you guys. xoxo
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